Reasons Old Souls Have A Harder Time Finding Love

A Rare Breed

Regardless of age, some people wander through life with a quiet wisdom that seems to come from a mysterious source of divinity.

The twinkle in their eye as well as the intense empathy and intuition old souls possess attract many but that doesn’t mean love comes easy for this rare breed.

Here’s why…

They’re Hyper-Intuitive

It’s not hard to imagine that old souls are hyper-intuitive. And although this is often considered a virtue, it can also lead to overthinking and wreak havoc on relationships.

Left unchecked, their intuition can lead to unnecessary worry and inaccurate assumptions. This will especially break a relationship that wasn’t strong to begin with.

Strong Sense of Self

Old souls know who they are and what they stand for. That means they also know what they want and do not want from a partner.

Their self-confidence and self-assurance is a trait many strive for but this also means they limit their dating pool for what they want only. Which often means, they’re single for longer.

They Won’t Settle

As mentioned previously, old souls know themselves and want they want and often, what they want is no “average” relationship.

They crave soulmate love, a relationship that is deeply connected and works well with their life. That means they will most likely be single until they find just that.

They’re Natural Healers

There are many natural healers in our world, many go whom, tend to be – yep, you’ve guessed it – old souls!

Their natural tendency to help and heal will result in them attracting people who need help, not love. And because healers love to heal, it takes a while for them to realize that a student or a charity case won’t meet their needs for a mature and competent partner.