Both Sides Were Insecure
Oher and his adoptive family experienced tension in the beginning of his entrance into their lives and at times, both sides started to wonder if this was the right fit. So, they weren’t a perfect fit from the beginning the way the film made them out to be, which any family could reasonable expect. It took time for them to bond and get to know each other, but one thing was certain, it was a much better situation for Oher than he had previously.