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I am wedding photographer. There was an incident at a wedding I documented last year that involved the bride’s mom, Bridget, and a novice DJ. Bridget had a bizarre request for the reception: She wanted the blindfolded bride to be surrounded by the groom and his wedding party, then she’s supposed to touch each man’s “lower” area and recognize her husband by the touch.
The bewildered DJ asked my advice on how to handle it. I was straight-up with him: If he wanted to keep his job, he needed to avoid the weird game at all costs. And in case Bridget came asking again, he would need to act as if he’d forgotten all about it.