Self-Absorption
Next time you meet someone, listen to what they speak about. Is it centered around him? Does he say “I” a lot during the conversation? Does he ask you questions about yourself, or does he appear to care more about himself? This could be a sign of self-absorption.
If your boyfriend is having a conversation regarding your relationship, it is crucial that he uses the word “we.” It is a vital distinction from the term “I.” It’s essential to be with someone who does not act selfishly.