The Great Gatsby: bride edition
My best friend since the day I was born is finally getting married. This past summer she asked me to be part of her wedding as a bridesmaid.
We had a dress try on party which was exciting and expected but found out the only type of dress she wanted would be over $200. This was the first time we were all expected to bring gifts for the occasion and throw a party for the bride which we were all happy to do.
At the party she decided to tell us all that we will also be required to pay for hair and make-up if we want it and find a specific shoe for the big day.
Not a big deal but wondering what she will be chipping in for.
Now moving on to the bridal showers — bridesmaids are expected to provide all the liquor for a 300 person event, come a day in advance to make all the party decorations and provide a gift off the registry for the shower.
Last but not least the bachelorette parties. We are expected to spend $1,000 just to attend the events. This is not including food and drinks. The second party will be more low key at her parents house for the people that aren’t invited to the first one.
We are expected to get at least one registry gift for this event. Plus, can’t forget we need to get one more registry gift for the wedding!
I am feeling a little put out for this wedding cost wise as we are all in our 20’s and two bridesmaids just turned 18. I have mentioned things are getting a bit over the top but as she and her parents are fairly wealthy she doesn’t see how this could be seen as expensive.
It’s honestly stressing me out that my friend would think this is normal to spend all this.
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