Bridezilla as match maker
My fiancé and I have been together for seven years. He has a best friend, John, who is now getting married to his fiancé, Kim.
Kim is a very possessive and controlling person and has been this way since I first met her seven years ago. She came into my fiancé’s friend group as John’s girlfriend but she always tried to dictate who anyone was allowed to invite and she claimed she and her own best friend are the only “females” allowed around the guys.
She wanted to set up her best friend with either my fiancée or another guy from the group who was single. The other guy moved away for some family business and my fiancée stayed in our hometown so Kim was trying to set him up with her bff.
My fiancée wasn’t interested at all. When he got with me Kim was very bitter and would take it out on me by insulting me and trying to dictate whether I can join them in outings and all that.
She said she and John are allowed to hang out together because they’re the “main couple” but not us. She always tried to exclude me in order to pair my fiancée with her bff.
We got engaged a year ago and Kim was bitter about that and even my fiancé’s best friend said how Kim hates hearing of our engagement because “there goes her plan.”
Now they’re getting married and my fiancé is a groomsman and Kim’s best friend is a bridesmaid. She wants to pair them together, sit them together, have them share intimate, romantic dances together and she said random guests like me will be sat in the back of the room.
I’m like yeah, I’m out.
I had enough of that disrespect. My fiancé was also offended by all this and said he’ll attend as a guest but he cannot be a pawn in someone’s wedding because the bride tries to plan something shady.
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