Not A Happy Marriage
Bertrand Putnam, the guy in question, was formerly her husband. He was not only her husband but also the father of her children. They were, however, too little to recall knowing him. Sandie, on the other hand, clearly remembered.
She recalled how awful life had been with him. He was a thief, a liar, and an alcoholic. He never touched her, but she was mentally scarred for the rest of her life.