I Feel Like I Look Tired All the Time

“As an asian male who was born into a family where somehow everyone else has double eyelids except for a couple uncles and maybe a couple cousins (i have dozens of them), I have considered asking my plastic surgeon cousin for a double eyelid surgery. I feel that it makes me look sleepy/tired but I’m afraid of the stigma. Also, I’m not sure how my parents & my cousin would feel if I asked her to do that……argh what can I do? :(“ – Reddit / azntrojan