Abusive Husband
Generally, when a husband acts like a jerk, there’s a really good chance that he is one. Reddit user Torein0 knew a woman who was married to a jerk. But it wasn’t until they divorced and he died that she learned why he was the way he was.
“I knew a woman who was going through divorce proceedings with her husband. He was always argumentative and borderline abusive towards her, certainly always shouting and demeaning.
Then, just as the divorce was entering its final stages he very suddenly passed away.
His autopsy showed that he had a massive undiagnosed brain tumor which had been physically altering his personality. His wife felt all kinds of guilty afterward and took it out on everyone she talked to and lost a lot of friends in the process.”