Relatives Hid Father’s Demise For No Reason

Last week I discovered that my dad died two years ago … And no one bothered to tell me.
I’d been looking for him. He was something of a drifter and most likely had Asperger’s. I’m his only child.
I stumbled across his headstone on findagrave.com while digging through Ancestry.
His marker was labeled “beloved brother”. My aunts and uncles are real pieces of work … I’m not hard to find. I don’t even know how he died. He died alone though. VA paid for his burial.
I’m not okay.